NeVer Let otHer peOple TeLL yoU what SuccEss Is…

For a certain people it is difficult to accept that they failed. It is not easy to face the fear and accept the fact that you failed, of course. But leaving your nightmare is the only way to come back in life with proper mentality and disposition.

People should realize the whole reason of its failure first, starting from learning their mistakes what does not work in the past, accept it, and moving on towards the word success.

 

You may say that the word success in life means not only successful, but also means bouncing back from failure. But how you define the word success is your own story.

Defining success in your own terms is the best way to help you bounce back from failure. Neglecting you feel so much on the expectation of other people is also one term of what the word success will be defined.

And finally you will find out the word success for your own, the acceptance of fail and the word moving on to grab the next successes.

Define the word success by yourself, for yourself....Never let people tell you what success it.

LeAviNg fOr a bEaCh LiP

Fruitfully… could become a simple crunchy word…. it is not related only to a full of fruit in the basket, a cocktail glass of fruits, not even a full of colorful toping ingredients spreading on top and within the Nasi Goreng. It is quite something pearling and sparkling towards seducing prompt of concealing a taste beyond.

A country, a third world developing country in which a legislative and presidential election are now conducting is one of a monumentally cruising path of a sailing trip passing through a sharkly ocean sautéing many group of people running for its best representatives and leaders through a powerful seeking its willingness to which governing the next regime is one of mirroring towards its phenomena.

The green bitter water melon, the red chili, the deep red beef sausage, the orange skin of slicing tomato, the yellow part of omelet, the white clumsy rice are volcanoing in a plate, pursuing for a harmony ensemble, awaiting for its turn to fulfill its phenomena surrounding. Predicting and simulating the far end of its destiny is also another interesting subject for each group due to its comprehensive sailing the swaying ship on the ocean thoroughly by its giggling group contribution towards a beach lip, not its group beach lips hopefully…

Golf and its Passion

If you are now becoming a golfer, then you'll find that its sport is not just a matter of carrying stick, hitting the ball, walking through the green, wearing luxury T-shirt. The golf philosophy is most deep live oriented than any other games to become more emphatically. For me, actually there many other sports which are simultaneously be mine, such as, riding motorbike, badminton and futsal. But golf is the most one.

Neglecting gender, religion, and year age, golf is the only sport in which every body be grouped in a frame named handicap, a numerical measure of a golfer's potential playing ability based on the tees played for a given course. Those kind of grouping are allowing players of different proficiency to play against each other on somewhat equal terms.

And that is the point, golf player will only be judged in a particularly score and be competed to every one but in a same group of handicap.

It is a passion....golf passion....always anxiously how digging its philosophy and its way to reducing handicap thoroughly.

ad hominem

Yelling, bullying are often arise fluently in a short counter for irrelevant fact that sometimes mostly related to gender, intellectual basis, even racist distinctiveness to which an individual perspectives are always involved as it is pin pointing to its personality opponent subject instead of its expression. Ad hominem, short of the term argumentum ad hominem is defined as an attempt to deny the validity of an opinion with reference to personality (which is negative) or beliefs of the speakers

We see very often that people will easily react cynically to the author or a person presenting the argument neglecting whether its conclusion is true. The smokers will simply reject on irrelevant fact about the author who presenting the unhealthy smoking consequences proposal by pointing them ambiguously, and sometimes even further, by seeking the author negative back ground such as their intellectual basis, their race, even the author’s religious sect.

What I am saying is good to rely on the credibility of statements of fact properly instead of bullying the author for its arguments fiercely.